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Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=708jONglnH8&feature=plcp&context=C379297aUDOEgsToPDskKqS9KX3WHu-JgNAMkS9plo

Many people think that high school will be where all the bullies are and where kids are the meanest and the most insecure, but this is all wrong. People in middle school are unusually mean to some because of their own insecurities and how they feel about them selves. People are naturally concerned what people think of them and not without some reason, but being mean is just a way of trying to make people who maybe are just more secure then them feel bad, and make the bully believe they are actually better. Well, while this may be a scare tactic that bullies use, its overall a load of crap. No matter how many times kids hear about puberty, and how they are probably just late or all that, they will still worry about things that are out of their control. I had a kid about two years younger and four inches shorter say that he had a bigger dick than me. Everyone in the entire lunch line expected me to hit him or something, but you can’t defend yourself by stating that would be impossible. that would be useless, you need to give off the fact that you could care less what he thinks, so i said back, while patting him on the shoulder, “That’s not that big a feat big boy.” and walked away. He was pretty dumbstruck, not that that was that hard for him, but it got me thinking that people get much less insecure the older they get because people get more sure of them selves, they figure they can’t change themselves by being cruel to people, so most of the time by soft-more year they cut it out. If you are someone who gets bullied, you need to try not to worry about it, because even though it hurts, that will not change, take care in the fact that you are better than them, and you will always be better than them.